Reflections & learnings from 2019

Updated: Jan 7

For many of us, 2019 has been an immensely intensive year. 2019 was the year of deep transformation, change, unraveling and opening. To me, this year almost felt like a whole damn decade itself, and the teachings I received in this past year have been so profound and a culmination of everything I've worked on in the past five years.

Reflecting upon 2019, here are a few of my learnings of this year

☽ Your life expands in connection with your courage.

☽ Knowing yourself and your truth is essential. Having the courage to share it is what makes it exceptional.

☽ In order to stay true to yourself, you sometimes have to take very hard and painful decisions.

☽ In the end it all comes down to love. The capacity of love you allow yourself to share, to receive and to multiply.

☽ Love is all there is.

☽ The more you do what you love, the easier life gets.

☽ Excitement turns into stacks of cash.

☽ As soon as you create your own “rules” and stop giving fucks about what anyone else claims to be “the solution” – no matter in business or relationships – shit gets real.

☽ Following pleasure is new decade shit.

☽ Maybe you’re the unavailable one!

☽ No one is responsible for how you feel.

☽ Your relationships expand to your capacity to express your vulnerable truth.

☽ Taking down the mask in front of the people you want to be loved so much, is magic.

Vulnerability creates connection.

☽ Men are amazing and they also have their insecurities and stories.

☽ Stop trying to mold him into the version you want him to be. Offer your unconditional love and trust and see him flourish.

☽ Trusting that he loves you is a game-changer.

☽ It is safe to give your love. It doesn’t take anything away from you.

☽ Only take relationship advice from people who are actually having a healthy relationship!

☽ Don’t over-talk certain topics with friends.

☽ Always, in life, it is important to take decisions no one understands.

☽ The harder you try, the lesser this thing is for you – or will actually happen.

☽ It’s not about getting what you want, it’s about having a fucking amazing journey!

☽ Let your excitement and turn on lead the way!

☽ Pleasure & joy are available to us in any moment.

☽ The moment I choose pleasure over "shoulds" and "have to's", everything in my life expands to orgasmic abundance.

☽ In every given moment, we get to choose – love or fear.

☽ Oh, and last: Relationships that look super fancy on Social Media are usually shitty.

Here is to a year with more of all of this.

You, owning your truth. Showing your magical and bold self to the world!


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